You said "Last night I got home at 1030 PM.... H was annoying me as he really wasn't interacting with me and seemed a bit distant. I asked if he had a good day at work, and he said "I'm just playing,"
hmmm.. you often say he is playing video games (in nearly every one of your posts!). Would you say he was addicted to them? Its a classic sign of depression isnt it. Also, he's being pretty avoidant and his answer was rude too. You also said in one of your posts that he has never helped cook dinner in 7 years and also, that he never asked you how your day was ever, prebomb. I feel that you are battling against some behaviours that have always been there in your R, that are maybe adding to the general feeling of a H who isnt being particularly loving/giving right now?
I am picking up that he seems quite quiet and brooding lately. It seems from an outsiders perspective that you dont really know whats going on with him, or what he is thinking and he does seem to be thinking or withdrawn at least. He seems emotionally distant still. I worry for you that you may be in a bit of a lull, a sense of security, but that he could surprise you again with some negative R talk. Try not to keep your head, its early days! Not to be negative, I just want to say he still seems to be holding all the cards.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
