No I would not have sex with him. Actually I think it is all talk.
I just saw him in the mall now and he is sooooooooo distant. It really upsets me. I told him about his mothers call and he said "I dont care if you come to dinner. I just said that I would not be inviting you"
Horrible horrible horrible
Yesterday he was quite jovial on phone, today after what I believe is a night out with OW he is horrible. God what do I do
Mof3,
Hard to say, but generally when someone is involved with an OP, bad moods = good for you, good moods = bad for you.
If your H is in a bad mood it could be a number of things like he's in conflict about what he's doing, he's in conflict with the feelings he has for you but doesn't WANT to have, things aren't so wonderful with the OW.
Good moods are actually worse. That means he's fine with his decisions and everything is great in OW land.
So my take would be, if you believe he was out with OW and he was then horrible, that's a GOOD thing.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
