I think I was saying something about being assertive at least with her (and your own opinions) in the house, so not to just let things slide by you. Personally, I hate being told what to do and wopuld react badly to someone trying to dominate me in any way whatsoever, but I did find my ex more attractive when he started to be more vocal about his own opnions. He used to be soooo easy going and non confrontational... but he was kind of weak, he let me get my own way... So, maybe not caveman, but more, um, assertive and confident !?? Be your own man...
I like the idea of reminding her about hte letter.. or maybe asking for her schedule for the MC will remind her? (or maybe she thinks she will be answering the letter AT the MC sessions??) Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
