Hard for me to say. Does H say he loves you but can't live with you or anything similar. If he says or said that then reciprocating it can't be a bad thing (the love bit obviously! :-) ). What does your instinct tell you - would he even notice how you signed it? lol I often told H that I loved him and towards the end he would say I know. To start off with I think it annoyed him as he was convinced I didn't and I was just saying it. However, eventually everything sort of added up and he realised that I did. He didn't obviously say it back but it did give him food for thought. I don't know how things are between the two of you now and don't get me wrong my H was really horrible to me at times. He blamed me for everything that was wrong in his life (as he saw it). He says now that one of the reasons he came back to us was because of the way I stood firm through it all and was the one constant in his life. I told him that I would not stand in the way of his happiness and agreed to the D. I found that he was often just looking for a fight so he could say to himself "there she doesn't love you this was the right thing to do" and justify what he was doing. Does any of this sound familiar?
