Ok, I know it is late, but just spoke to friend who did not at all object to referring to them in e-mail. So here is the re-draft (slight edits) that will be sent...

W, I agree the kids will be very disappointed. You have more say in this than you let on, in fact you have ALL the say in this. Your affair is the only thing standing in our way, but I can't control you nor do I have any desire to. Friend mentioned they would rather not have us along because of what is going on and we can't afford this trip and go through a divorce. I would love nothing more than for you to stop the affair, work on the marriage, and continue fun trips with the family.


LIS

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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.