I'm sure OJ hasn't taken anything I or anyone else said to mean he needs to go all caveman on his wife.

Further, no one is suggesting OJ ramp up his pace.

There are certain types of women who wouldn't respond positively to anything "Alpha".

OJ will not do anything that's not already in him naturally to do.

You sure as hell can't fake being an Alpha.

But he can express and exhibit the self-confidence and self-esteem he has gained here and take it with him into his home life.

If for no other reason than to feel good about himself there again.

And that's what this is really about.

Him taking back control of his life and feeling good about himself again.

If it turns her on, that's a bonus.

If it doesn't, well he's still made a place for himself again.

And that'll be a good thing.