Another Wife Hit By The Bomb #4

[Tawnya]

Amy..no no..I knew he had this money set aside, we have 2 accounts, we set up 2 checking accounts a few years ago when we got an identify theft from something on the internet, so we had set up a 2nd one originally for that purpose, to transfer $$ just to use for internet purchases, then we changed it to be used to set aside our mortgage money from each paycheck..so I KNEW he had the $1400 in there..I was just hoping he wouldn't take it all out into this new account, which he also told me about..

Just the statement he made about "I didn't say I wanted anything separated"..I was like, UM..hello..well let's see, you said you wanted US separated, our money separated obviously, you want a separation agreement..what the heck LOL?!

Carp..yes, if it came to that..I would do that in a minute, but, hub is suppose to continue to pay those..or I say he will be continuing to pay those house utility bills and stuff, that will definitely be part of our sep agreement, but you are right, if that got threatened, I'd change everything in a SECOND!

OK..so something even WEIRDER today..I was out with my daughter this evening and I said, "have you talked to dad recently", even tho he's still in the same house, he doesn't interact with the kids that much..she said "yes, we actually had lunch today"..I was like "What" then I asked if they had lunch usually ever that I didn't know about and she laughed and was like NO..LOL..she said he was definitely acting "weird", ok..she's almost 18 and he was introducing her to someone that we know that didn't know her, he introduced her as his "little princess or little angel or something"..SHE was like "what the heck is THAT"..she said to me, "Dad's being all overly affectionate and I Don't like it," then she said, "because he wasn't ever like this for 18 years, I don't want it now"..WHAT is that?

Then he told her that I didn't tell HIM that I had told our son about his planning to separate and I was like WHATTTTTTT, he and I had a convo not once but TWICE just the other day, once in person and once on the phone about that I had told him and then I even called him to tell him exactly what I had told our son so he wouldn't have to wonder..I was like OK is he LYING to her or did he forget?

It was just WEIRD..anyone with some insight..I'd love some Definitely sounds like MLC to me for my hub.

Tawnya