God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

She is in denial and has no respect for herself.

No denial here. No colored glasses. I am fully aware of my sitch and all that is going on. And as far as respecting myself, I do respect myself, that's why this hurts so bad. I have swallowed my pride way to many times over the course of this MLC. But it comes down to what I REALLY want out of my life. And nothing comes easy and "to get what you never had, sometimes you have to do things you've never done".

Why would her H have respect for her?
Because I NEVER gave up on him or our M. Because regardless of it all, I didn't quit.

As Bworl said you need to ‘set him free’; preferably, at speed, from tip of your boot. Working on that

He is having his cake and eating it, time to let him know the party is over.. and that too

Thanks Nutty