Deb
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you don't follow any of it.

Yes I do, but I have to do this my own way. I am the one living it. I don't know how I would be getting through this with out everyone on here. I am so thankful for everyone.

I use this board to read and learn. I come here to vent all the bad stuff I am feeling. I use it to stop me from doing things that are bad DB. When I slip I come here to put it out there and start over again. I come here for strength and courage, for support.

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You have got to find a way to put your foot down and set some boundaries. I know it's not always easy; but, you might get surprised.

I am trying so hard to figure out a way to do this. I am telling myself that at this point, what have I got to lose.
Thank you for your input and advice
TOH


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!