God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

I think AN2M was just trying really hard to get you to see that your H is abusive. Just because he isn't rotten 24/7/365 doesn't excuse all the bad stuff. He hit you, right?
Ann I was abused when I was a kid. I know exactly what abuse is. My H does not physically abuse me. He can be mean. No he can be a real a*s, but never has he abused me. Wish I could play a video of my life. That's the only way I could prove what I'm saying. Since MLC yes, he's went waaay over board.

Anyway, you are still orbiting around him. I realize it is practically impossible for you to detach while working with him on the farm. At some point you might just have to force him sell up. And I'm not denying this will not happen. Just not today or tomorrow. He's never had to suffer any consequences for his actions, something I struggle with each and every day. But that's for him and God to settle. and you can't go on like this forever Very true(although he probably expects you to).

Sorry.
Thanks Ann