Hi Julia, Yes, with my scared little boy H - I am trying to do both. Break down the wall. So yes, I'm DBing - following your lead. Although for me - it's back tracking. You know trying to step backwards in the footprints I have already made in the snow.
So I did some research today. My H only has until next Friday to serve me D papers (then his 60 days has run out)! Will be interesting to see if I suddenly become a priority.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)