She is so sweat. Yesterday when I dropped her off at school she asked if she would see me last night. I said I would probably not be there when she got home. I told her I would stop by and see her today, which I did.
Monday I went over to work on the bathroom floor. I was putting in new underlayment and tiling. I thought my W had jury duty in the morning so I got out then she was gone. It turns out that the case was plead and she went to work.
When I came out of the garage from cutting the underlayment I got a text. "Please stop avoiding me and call me back" Apparently she tried calling earlier, but cell phone service is spotty. Not only did she try and call my cell (left VM), she called the house phone, my apartment phone and my work phone.
I called her back and she said that she had moved some money into my account because it was overdrawn. It turned out to be a bank error. Some other not so important convo and went back to getting the bathroom done. She did mention about almost getting a DUI Sat night. Talked earlier with the guy who pulled her over, he did not want to tell me about it.
SD17 came home sick, she has bronchitis. She did get her speeding ticking in the mail. I just asked her about it and she was not to happy. I had a couple in HS myself, not a big deal.
W did come home early from work. She came home early because she was having computer problems at work. I just kept doing what I was doing. She came back a couple times to offer advice. She hovered around me a couple times, but I maintained my composure.
The times I did talk with her she went from sounding down to irritated. Her pessimisive towards life directly opposes my optomistic view towards life.
I got that part done and took D11 for the night. She just played some games here. It was still good to have her around.
Yesterday I started putting in the laminate tile. She woke up later and said that I should have woke her up. She was going to help me with laying the tile. She slept late because she was up from 2-6 am and then went back to sleep. I did have her help some while I went out in town to do some work.
Most of the tile went down, there is still a little more to do on Friday. She told me not to stress about it when I left. I was not to stressed, I just wanted to get it done. With most of the tile down she told me we did a good job picking out the tile and the wall color. The paint and tile were picked out in a better time.
Felt a little like dejavue from earlier in this whole sitch. Personally I am not to fond of references involving we. She seemed happier today and yesterday. I was more friendly towards her. When I left yesterday she thanked me a couple times and said she appreciated everything. Then again right now she is getting what she wants.
I just need to keep the peace for another month. Then onward and upward into a new life.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Happy Thanksgiving to you too. I am going to keep busy making dinner for my kids and my parents and then my Aunt is coming for pie. I will be thinking about you tomorrow. We will catch up soon, promise.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I kept D11 last night so not a lot going on there. I hate being poor. There is so many memories I would like to create with her.I do feel sorry she is caught up in all of this.
It is rough on the kids I think. That's the worst part of D to me. But I'm poor too, and I think you can have just as much fun with the kids for free or very little. I do almost every free thing in town. Just baking chocolate chip cookies or a cake is something the kids enjoy and they love helping with that (esp. licking the batter). We do Taekwondo for $10 a month at the city parks & rec. My church has tons of free activities for the kids too. Honestly, my kids have more fun for free sometimes I think than when their dad takes them to a $50 movie (when you figure in the junk food).
Oops, I forgot to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving! Hope you're having a great day! Karen
Some of my best memories are with family playing touch football in the back yard, card games of 500 w/ the family, etc etc etc.
I'm realizing that's true for me. When I think of my childhood I remember watching fireworks on 4th of July, sitting out with my dad having him tell me about all the stars and which they were, and playing in our backyard swing set with my dad and brother. None of those cost a cent!!! Oh, yeah another fun one was camping in the backyard with a tent. I loved that!!! Karen
Yeah, it has been awhile. I got D11 tomorrow night, so I will try and update Monday. The short version is things are the same. I will try and catch up on everyone.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Pretty good. I have been MIA, just busy GAL. D11 turned into D12 last night. I went out to the house for her birthday after work. No hostilities between my stbxw and myself. We had a big blowout on Sunday and Monday, but that storm has calmed down.
Kat, if you were wondering it was not me involved the chase/ shooting up here on Monday. I was pretty close but did not to get involved in it to much. Working yesterday and today has been terrible. Tomorrow does not look so well either.
SD 17's court date is Monday for the rape. Hopefully this time it will go and move on to a trial. The f'ing idiot that did tried to plea to a misd. battery charge and furnishing alcohol to a minor. Not going to happen, he needs to go to prison and become a registered offender.
I will try and post on here more. I do miss some of you on here and hope you are all doing as well as you can. Take care all.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Karen