M, I have thought of this as it applies to my sitch. What am I going to do if my in-laws want me around for Christmas. I was invited for Thanksgiving so. I've thought I would leave it up to the kids. that's just me thinking about my sitch.
Let me digress back to my earlier post about your H and his attraction toward you. You have mentioned that he still talks sexually toward you; if you get in close quarters and he makes advances, are you going to give in? I think that having sex with him should be the last thing you do right now with OW in the mix.
Just wanted to make sure to mention that since you're vulnerable to him right now.
