Treese, Please do not enable your h. If he has to work 3-4 jobs to pay child support, then he will have to do it. You should not have to cut out anything that you have or are doing right now. He's the one that has created this mess. You should not be punished for him committing adultery and getting caught in the process.
Treese, it's time to protect you and your children. Protect your assets and make sure that you have something in place that ensures that you are not liable for his child support for the little boy. This is his responsibility...not yours, especially with him not even living w/you.
Sending you warm and positive thoughts this evening.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
