H mother has just called and asked me to her place for family christams tommorrow. She was crying and said that she had talked to her other son and he was contacting H to let him know of her wishes.
Do i go? Do I discuss it with H ? Do I just consider the kids in this sitch - they would like me to go ? What would Dbers do ? What is the Db thing to do considering I am giving H his space with the hope he heals and recognises what we are loosing ! I am not bothered about going
