Thank you for responding.....He is coming for the christmas hoilday....he said We ......made the back of my hair stand on end....We are coming for xmas.....I live with my oldest daughter due to finances and she does not want him there.....He told her to f**k of on the phone one day.... he never spoke to her like that when we were together....my daughter says it because he no longer feels like part of our family anymore....
He was the only real father she ever knew but now he uses the f word alot.... she uses it too or used to when I took care of her child 15 or so yrs ago.
I can not believe she has done so much damage to our family... I dont k now what I ever did to her to take him like that...
And I have turned it over to God ... it is all I can do.
I went to church on Wed.had them pray over our family and for the holy spirit to speak to his heart....I have not spoken to him in over a month no contact what so ever....nothing... Anyways he didnt even call us for Thanksgiving..not even his daughter...all we got was a message from my BIL to tel us he wished all a Happy Thanksgiving....I was crushed needless to say...
But on Thurs. morning he texted me to call him when I could.I didnt call untill the afternoon when I got off of work.... The holy spirit did speak to him....God let me know he was still there working just on the other side of that mountain...
I was so thankful to the Lord for that... we talked for about 15 minutes... thats when he told me about xmas....
I didnt expect anything from that phone call ... it just let me know God does answer prayer... in his own time..
Man you talk about testifying to that.... to all my friends and family.. it felt good to tell them bout this text...I mean really... no call on the holiday but out of the blue he texts me the next morning!!!!!!!
Glory be to god...... I am in awe.... Be Blessed In Jesus Name
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
Another thing... you know how they say the MLC'er spends money like crazy.... well it is true...Sorry I had no right to this money... because in my state it is considered personal property and a wife can not collect on inheritance money and Texas has what they call community property which I am sure you knew this being from Texas and all.
But my I/L's left some money for their children which included my husband.... round $50000.00 We had a checking account back when he got the first $20000.00 so i got lots of that money... but the $25k he has spent in a little over a month ...
I still have access to the account unawares to him of course... he spent sooo much on just crap for his car... to mover her to where he lives... car rentals... motels...Walmart got a big chunk of it....he was buying things there all the time.
He is down to less than a hundred dollars.... It is true what they say about the spending habits... it like they are a teenager and they have no concept of a dollar....
So now he has to work... she stays home all day...which I am sure she enjoys after struggling most of her life..
And I know I should not be doing that should of just left it alone.. but I just wanted to know when he was filing for divorce so I could prepare myself...
I am sure he is feeling the pinch of not having money like he used to...
Maybe it isnt so greener after a while... he will realize that the story didnt change... just the characters...
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M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Boy are you in demand! If you have a spare couple of minutes in your obviously busy schedule, and could stop by my thread, I could sure use it. I'm feeling very depressed and confused and don't know what to do.....
If not, I do understand. The holidays are hectic!
Take care!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
