I hear you Marcus... it was a punch in the gut when last year a found a draft of a letter I typed for stbx when he was living with me. He was graduating from the academy and was supposed to write a small bio, at the end it said "Xxx lives with his wife and children in Xtown", well, much later I found another draft, the one he used for his graduation: "Xxxx lives near his children in Xtown" I dont' think people thought he was married... all the while I sacrificed a lot and helped him so much to get through the academy, and that was the thanks I got.
Hon, we dont' need people like that, love is not supposed to be this much suffering! a friend in the D part of this board put it well on her siggy "do not make a priority of someone who only thinks of you as an option.
You are worth much more than that.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
