Hey, marriedCrazy! Thanks so much for popping in and offering support.
I'm very familiar with Brunswick, and I live just outside of Savannah myself although I work in Hilton Head. What a small world!
Thanks for the kudos. I'm trying to learn quickly and really apply myself to saving my M. I really do hope he's noticed, and I am hopeful that by taking this opportunity to grow that I can not only have a better M but become a better person.
And thank you for being so understanding and commending me in my turnaround to be supportive of him. You know, I really was a total b****, and I am ashamed of how I treated him/viewed his professions. It was so bloody ridiculous of me that I can't even articulate my feelings properly.
I think your assessment of my husband feeling he married down is spot-on. And I'd be lying if I said that I hadn't subconsciously agreed with him.
And I was wrong, of course. Very wrong.
I think he does have major self-esteem issues, and Lord knows i have some of my own. It breaks my heart to think that I probably contributed to those issues, and I hope that I am helping him by letting him sort this stuff out on his own. I think that by the time I started trying to be more supportive and respectful, I'd already done a lot of damage.
I'm so sorry to hear about you sitch, Tom. I'll check out your posts, and I wish you the best in your situation. Thank you so much again for being so supportive, and thanks very much for the encouragement to write. It really means alot. Best of luck in the Air Guard, be safe, and take good care of yourself.
