The truth. I will figure out the words, and clearly details are not needed, but the truth is. The 11 year old may get a little different script, but the message will be the same.
Ok all - an update of sorts. Still haven't talked to other friends to clear using them in my message, so that is still on hold.
But W texts me saying "d16 and I need cash - can you please make some available? Thank you."
My reply - "I am just going into a meeting out of office. Don't you have a significant balance of funds at your disposal in your account that was a reimbursement of expenses charged to the joint cr card?"
W: This is so that OUR daughter can do her xmas shopping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If that makes u feel good then so be it!! U do have an obligatigation
Me: I am done my meeting. I have no problem with $$ for d16's shopping. I simply asked a question about joint funds that you advanced to your account.
W: What joint funds??
I have not responded... yet. I did make some $$ available to D16.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
