T2L, this yoga/weights has saved my sanity some days. I don't have to depend on anyone and just go. Are you still taking salsa? What are you doing this weekend? I know you have plans for dinner next week with friends for anniv. day. Wish I could fly out and support that day. We WILL get through this. We just have these trigger days that make us go off.

Well went to gym at lunch and worked my butt off (or should I say on --trying to build it up--lol). Staff mtg - Saw H in hallway and normally I stop and talk to him. He is wearing this heavy leather jacket (it is in 50s today), I said "a little cold" and laughed and walked into the hallway of the meeting.

Then I get stopped by the admin who asked me a few weeks ago if everything is ok and she asks again, are you ok? She said you seem distracted, and then asks me if I was mad at her. I told her absolutely not. Then she invites me out next week to "talk" and come over her house and she promises to keep it private. Well H comes down the hall and sees me talking to admin and I could see he looks nervous (I already told him about previous comment), so admin starts to walk away and said I will contact you about next week. H just looks at me. I go into the meeting and 3 minutes in I find out they are talking about a presentation for next week that I am not part of. I ask my boss guess I don't need to be here. I get up and I see H trying to make eye contact, I sortva do a 1/2 wave and slither out of the room!
Another 180 - Normally I would have stayed for the meeting just to see H. It must be the weather because today I did not care.

So what are the weekend goals everyone??? T2L -- what do you have planned. I did see 4 Christmas last week and it was funny. My D15 thought it was a little depressing because of all the divorced parents but Vince Vaughn is a riot. It might be good for you to see something funny. Also guess what was on tv? Christmas Story!!! You have GOT to see it. Can't believe you never saw it. Get it and watch. That is your homework.

I wish everyone a good weekend. check in..these are the times we need to support each other. hang on it is going to be a wild ride.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09