True, sorry that you are also divorcing...

For me it was closure...and I needed that.

I will move forward with my life and that is a good thing...

Maybe you will find that too...

Hugs!
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller