For the Guy with Kids and a WW Twenty One

[kat727]

OK, the smileys on the side of our thread titles all had shades on...you, me and lis. We were all in a row. lol

As for last night you did pretty good until getting on line with her. I think the thing that you keep forgetting is that you are doing the rope dropping for your sanity, for your marriage, for her to feel what it is like without you, for her to understand the gravity of her choices. Drop the darn rope and throw it as far as you can. You feel the difference. Picture it in your mind.

Well you knew this was coming too, you let the vulture get a piece of you. B is not a friend of your marriage. She wants you big guy. As nice as that may feel, it is not what a married man needs, period. I don't know what it is going to take for you to get that, but you NEED to. No more chit chat, because to her it is not chit chat, it means more. ACTIONS speak volumes over words. Fell free to pick up the 2x4 and give yourself a couple whacks because I don't think I am hitting hard enough.

We care about you and we want you to save your marriage but you need to do the actions necessary to do that. We can't do it for you.

kat