Im in VA, I dont' think we have such thing, the legal separation covered everything from visitation to medical care to separation of assets. I sure wish there was such a thing here. So in your state if pretty much illegal to live together with a gf/bf if you have kids? wow, I didnt think that would fly here, there is no shame anymore.
I am in VA also. I had it written into our custody and visitation agreement that there would be no non-family members of the opposite sex overnight. We actually had a showdown over it in the gurdian ad-litem's office because X was quibbling over the hours that defined overnight and was willing to go to court over 30 minutes extra with his OW. He got around it by marrying her 14 days after the divorce. Apparently 8 nights a month without her was too much for him to bear.
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