Thank you both...I have a lot to think about. I think I have always had a real issue withh closing doors. Not just with relationships. It is hardest of all following a path I do not want to go down. I've known for months what would be best, somehow I convince myself to not be in a hurry.
Carp I will check out your sitch.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
