untying a few knots #9

[sandycay]

We can communicate this way if you prefer or you can call me anytime. I haven’t talked to him yet today so I’m not sure what the status of everything is from last night.

I read this as she is trying to test the waters to see if you told him and see if he is pissed at her for telling you what she did. She is trying to play both of you. She may also testing you to see if she has your trust i.e. you not telling your H about the convo like she asked. You don't need to contact her about anything. This is between your H and you. Your H however, in your presence(he can do this over the phone) needs to tell her the only contact you both need from her is regarding the well being of S. That's it, that's all that needs to be.

I would like to say I am so sorry. I’m sorry for the pain I caused you over the last 3 years. I’m sorry for letting it go on for so long. I’m sorry for being so stupid.

BS she's sorry it's over for her

It’s going to take me a lot of time to get used to the new status quo. I haven’t felt like this in a really, really long time. I’m just not sure what’s going to happen next.

Welcome to our world Biatch. Does she seriously think she can envoke sympathy from you?

She sounds like a woman groping from straws and I think you should take some comfort in that fact that she sounds that desperate because it shows that she knows your H is very serious.

FWIW - my H was also told that she would allow him to come home and live with us like a family and still see her on the side. Shows the sick desperation they have and lack of morals. The way I figured it was if she really had loved him like she told him she wouldn't have stood for that for one second (like I didn't)and in the end I really think that he lost all respect for her at that point. I know it made me very nervous too knowing that she's always out there circling like a shark but guess what. It's not attractive to be needy and whiny. So let her do all that and become very unattractive to him