Another Wife Hit By The Bomb #4

[Tawnya]

Can I just say that ARGH..I'm irritated at my hub today..I DO have a PMA and everything..but I'm gonna vent, cause I know that's part of what this site is about

Rant on:

OK..so my hub has been setting aside money, working a buttload of overtime for the past few months and has about $1400 set aside..just withdrew it from "our" account, which I knew about, and put it into his "new and sole" account wherever..ok..so that's not really my rant about the new account..BUT

OK..so our daughter is about to turn 18 in a month, she will be trying to go to college next year AND she needs a newer car than the one she is driving..WHY can't he see what a selfish JERK he is being spending that money on himself and/or the OW and/or getting a new place to live instead of seeing that SHE needs these things..at least this money would have been a great downpayment on a newer car for her (she drives a 1991 Explorer that we drove for a while, has no a/c, windows messed up, etc)?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It just ticks me to no end because, unfortunately, by myself, I can't get her extra money for that unless I get a second job, which I may do..because, dang it, she doesn't ask for anything and we should be able to bless her..

But can I tell my husband these things?? NO..because then I'm "trapping him" or trying to dictate things to him..tho I really want to!!!!!

OK..sigh..rant over

Tawnya