I just read the 5 LL book a week ago, and it really was good. I had read snippets about it but the book really helped put things together in my mind. There is also a new book he has called Love as a Way of Life that I am just starting.
I think the nudity situation could lead to an interesting holiday! If nothing else it can be a chuckle when you two retire at night, and maybe re-enact some things? I have found that with my H, the best way to sneak into intimacy is to do it with joking around and playing. Get a chance to touch him in a flirty and fun way, tickle, slap him on the rear, etc... Is this something that you could do with your H?
It will be great for you two to have a change of venue. Can also be a change of attitudes.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!