*Should I fight custody?*already signed sep.agr

[cat03]

I'm done trying to "reason" with stbx, in retrospect it was futile, it was like expecting he'd stop cheating and understand that love wasnt' a feeling but a choice. I wont anymore, that man refuses to understand why s10 feels the way he feels, to him it's no biggie at all and that there is no reason why s10 should feel bad ( about gf moving in, her kids too). As long as he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong he can give himself full license to foolishness.

I just realized that as yesterday I mentioned to him that last week I suggested to have an extra sunday with kids so that they would have somewhat of a transition when her kids come to live with them, that it could help all 4 kids get along better. His answer? our kids dont' have to talk to her kids.

I told him how s10 feels those kids are strangers and he is dreading that, and he says "well, once those kids come here and he meets them they wont' be strangers anymore"...

Unbelievable...

I know I know OT, let him be and stop telling him how handle his household. I guess I just can' comprehend how someone can be so stupid.