Hi peace-
I think it pretty telling that your H never wants to take your kids on any of these trips he goes on. \:\( He can't think of anyone but himself...so MLC!!!...grrr!!!

Good for you for handling the conversation so well. So now you know when you talk to him, you get a better result if you don't pressure or guilt him in anyway.

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h wound up coming to visit and I intuitively sense it was only b/c the way I asked with no control
no expectation
and not a need to know
left it all up to H
This is true for my H too. I seem to get a better response from my H when I leave things up to him...when we meet and even what we talk about. Unfortuantely, I don't have an easy time not pushing for answers. Thanks for the reminder.

I hope your S is feeling much better. You sound like you are doing well. Enjoy the holidays and try not to pay too much attention to what your H does.

(((HUGS)))