Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

Sorry WDID. I can see how you read it that way. I AM going to her Christmas party with her. W and M are going shopping for dresses on Sunday. Sorry for the confusion.

And it'll be interesting at her Christmas party. W has said a few things to me over the last couple months that make me think that there's been some gossip around her work site about her and OM. I have some job responsibilities at her Refinery and a number of the people I have to work with there have made little comments, but never coming right out and saying so, that make me think it was pretty well known that W and OM were fooling around. That, and the fact that EVERYONE there knows we're married, but W hasn't had her rings on in over a year now. So I'll be interested to see the reactions when we come to the party together.

My party tonight will be interesting also. I didn't tell anyone who works for me outright, but a lot of them figured it out. Like I said before, my admin knew 4 months before I'd admit to myself that it was probably happening and she's a straight talking, no B.S. kind of person, so that interaction will be interesting. I am confident that no one will treat her any differently, which is a good as it will show W that we CAN have a future without her being judged, which is one of the stumbling blocks you need to get past when this chit goes on.

But it's hers to deal with. I've already told her on a number of occasions that I would never let anyone treat her badly because of it and if they did, then they would no longer be in my life. But I know it's still hard for her.

Ok, gotta do some work. Talk to ya later.