2008 = Crazy Year (Twisted 20)

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((((wdid)))) and PDT

You two are definite pillars of wisdom for me now. Thank you.

I like the idea of responding - glad I didn't do so last night b/c I would have gone overboard on the respect thing (or lack thereof shown to our family).

I really like your suggestions for a response. I would love to simply use wdid's, but the response by text was more that she was asking more questions and this needed to be dealt with NOW. Where she "needed to know right now" was with respect to another trip re S13 hockey tournament. So how about...

"W,
You are breaking the kids hearts by breaking up our family by having an affair. Was going to wait to talk to you, but you kept raising questions and we NEEDED to deal with this right now. This is your choice, not mine. [(W Friend) doesn't want you at the place because of your choice and] We can't afford this trip and go through a divorce. I would love nothing more than for you to stop the affair, work on the marriage, and continue fun trips with the family."

As you can see I eliminated (square brackets for now) the part about the friends. It is true, but I would rather check with them before I say that. So I can send now as above OR wait for a bit (too early right now), check with them and then send with that comment in - I would rather do the latter because I think it is a POWERFUL comment!

You guys are GREAT!!!!!!!!!