"You are breaking the kids hearts by breaking up our family by having an affair. Was going to wait to talk to you, but you kept asking me saying you NEEDED to know right now. This is your choice, not mine. (W Friend) doesn't want you at the place because of your choice and we can't afford this trip and go through a divorce. I would love nothing more than for you to stop the affair, work on the marriage, and continue fun trips with the family."
