The message of the one I sent I thought was perfect for you.

Why aren't you going to your W's Christmas party with her? Don't you usually go with your spouses? That seems wierd to get a new dress and go with a friend like you are single.

You should be longing for more. Her REFUSAL to go to a movie with you, and take you to her Christmas party...just even those TWO things would be depressing. Sorry, not trying to "get you down" but I think you are past the detaching and waiting stage. I think you should be talking to her now.