God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

an2m, I really really wish you could come meet me. Talk to my family and friends. Anybody and everybody that knows me would tell you, you are waaaayyy of the mark here...
"needy subservient person with low esteem for a mate"
You couldn't be more wrong when judging me. And my H.

"I know the signs very well."
Well, sorry, but you are wrong.

"This was not all OW's fault takes two to tango."

I have never denied that. But what happened between her and I was between her and I and for what she's done to me and my family. H knows he's done very wrong and he's paying for it every single day. She on the other hand doesn't have a clue nor does she care.

"for him life is cushy"
Again, your wrong. On the outside yes, he keeps telling himself that. But he cannot deny who he is forever...

an2m I thank you for trying to be a friend, being here for me, and offering your advice. I wish you all the best in your sitch. But you are way to judgemental and closed minded. You think you KNOW me and my H and your so very wrong. I understand where you think some of the things you do but again, your wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions but please from now on keep them to yourself. I am struggling so much with all this and the last thing I need is someone trying to bring me down farther. What I need is someone understand, open minded, and supportive. Someone to not be so judgemental and so sure they KNOW and are right.
Good luck to you.

TOH