D16, too - you were wondering what kind of activity - SHOPPING!!!
Something about the car - sitting next to someone, instead of across, makes it easier to open up about the deeper stuff.
I so agree with Donna on both.
Even though you found out about the set of stockings at "the house" I would still put some up at your house! They are the favorite part of Christmas for me. I even help Santa with things I would love to find in my own stocking on Christmas morning! Be good to yourself!!!