wow scarey! I really dont think any of us here can help you after reading your past couple of posts
Yes he is a coward...thats why he latched on to a needy subservient person with low esteem for a mate. thats why he has a lowlife OW. you both are willing to feed his need to feel good and be in charge. he knows she will be at his beckon call to play with when he needs and he knows you will do what ever it takes to keep him. .....I was in a R just like this before I met my H for 10years!!!!! I know the signs very well.
This was not all OW's fault takes two to tango.
I would say its pretty clear he wont be out of the tunnel any time soon. He doesnt have to. you will take any piece of him you can have w/o him budging a centimeter. for for him life is cushy.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
