Thank you so much for your help! Mof3 thank you for following and posting it's nice to see you. I'll have a read of your sitch.
I took all of your advice and sent a text this morning saying
'Hiya, sorry I didn't reply yesterday my phone ran out of battery. I am free Monday of Wednesday night. Do either of those suit? I don't feel comfortable signing the form until we've had a chance to discuss the implications. Thanks'
I just feel pressured all of a sudden from yesterday. Like it was just assumed it was all going to be ok. He sent through the form which I received in the postthis morning, no covering note or anything - it was just shoved in an envelope. I know, he doesn't owe me anything etc but it is a little abrupt?? On the plus side I suppose he does at least write my married surname on the envelope.
I have a horrible cold at the moment. I am going to get some stuff to dose me up and try and shake it off. I got hardly any sleep last night because of the texts during the day and the light thing. I try not to let the text thing stress me but the light freaked me totally just before I went to bed. Not good.
I don't know what I would do without you all, thank you!