Just thought I'd pop in to say hi PM. It sounds like your C is finally starting to talk some sense. I think your H may be moving away from his fantasy world as you said. Hopefully this is the point where he learns that the grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. You have to remain really strong through this and stop him thinking he can just click his fingers and have you back. We all want things which are unattainable for us. Up till now, your H has been having his cake and eating it. Only you can stop that.

I wish you all the luck in the world. I hope the weekend turns out well.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.