Truelove, I wish you a lovely weekend also, take care in everything you do. I have another update and it is a good one, finally after three and half years battling ex has paid a cheque into my solicitors for the said amount he offered me from the house, a measly amount in comparison to what he walked away with and what he has still got tied up in properties, but at least its there. still think there is something strange going on as he as now paid son and myself up all in the space of a month, taken the house of the market to rent out instead of sell, packed his business up, it is like he his tidying his life up all of a sudden, now all that he needs to do is tidy up the life he has had for the past three years and tidy wifey away, oh how I wish. but we'll get on and leave it to god to do when hes ready. have fun folks cos I sure am going to