YR is right, let him work.

It is not up to you to provide for this other child.

Does he think you will contribute with your salary or that he will contribute less to your household?

He is a mess and he does not see a way out. Of course, that is what happens and now, he is paying the price.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19