I worry about your seeming willingness to settle should you be given the chance.
I hope you understand that I will hope you aren't.
I'm not. Besides, she has been very clear over and over again that nothing will change her mind. She said she 'will always love me' and she tells others what a great man I am. But she can never be married again. Even thought her 'friends' tell her she may feel differently in the future. Some friends.
Seriously, our life wasn't that bad. And with love and understanding it can be fixed.
But, she doesn't think so. She thinks it shouldn't be fixed. She loves me but doesn't think we should be together.
I can live with that, and even her 'vision' where I am happy and successful in my life without her.
I just don't believe any of it. I don't have the same vision.
Maybe I am foolish. I just have my own 'vision' where real love and commitment wins.