Thanks for all the encouragment everyone. I had a little setback tonight.

We were relaxing after dinner and then the door bell rang. It was solicitors. H said Glam go ahead and buy a box of chocolates. First of all, I don't really want chocolate in the house and second I just hate it when they go door to door selling wares.

I said to h, can't you say No. H was furious. Thought I was undermining him in front of the children. Said if I tell you to go ahead and buy a box of chocolates, then just do it don't ? what I say. I know this is really petty, but it's the small things that will get us in trouble.

I just need to think before I say something, because h sees this as I will never learn to listen. Sometimes I think he thinks I should be scene and not heard.

Well Sir my h will be in your neck of the woods on Sunday driving his car, so you are right he will use it! Too bad I have to work on Sunday or else we would have joined h.

He changed his mind about coming over on Friday now. Said see you on Sat.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"