And I'm wondering why his girlfriend tolerates another woman texting her boyfriend? And how good of friends was your wife with the friend who is no longer talking to her because of this guy? If your W didn't care anything about this guy, why was she willing to lose a friend over him? I would think that if she didn't care one way or the other about this guy, she would have just told him to get lost, and she would still have the friend. ..... I'll keep checking back in with you Sam. I hope you can do the same for me!
Well, she texts the girlfriend also, they had lunch together a couple of times... It does feel a little weird to me I have to admit. As far as my W's girlfiend is concerned, she wasn't friends with her that long before this happened, maybe 6 months. It's when they started going out together that she noticed that all the girlfriend was trying to do is flirt with other guys when she was trying to have a nice time with a friend. My W said that all she was good for when she went out with her was an alibi to her H and that she was sick of it (her words exactly). Other women my W knows and also know this girlfriend said she did the same to them and that's why they don't want to have to do anything with her anymore. The girlfriend situation does make sense to me, I am just not 100% sure about the sitch with the guy and his GF, although when I met him, he did seem to be very committed to his GF... So who knows...
