2008 = Crazy Year (Twisted 20)

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Well, here we are at #20. Figured I would start a new thread since 19 likely to be locked (thanks mods for keeping it open to deal with the day's events!).

To update, I sent the following message to W:

It would be reckless to pay for a trip to Hawaii when the future of our family is so uncertain. Need to cancel the trip. I didn't insist on cancelling the trip earlier because I hoped that you would stop your affair.

W responded with the following text message:
"Don't agree but then when has that ever counted for anything. If u want to break the kids hearts, then that's on ur shoulders. A phone call would have been nice or better yet face to face would have been more respectful not surprised in the least tho."

Now, when I received that I really wasn't phased. Not surprised it was "all my fault". The respect part is laughable. And break the kids hearts - well that is the button that she knows will get me, so need to guard on that.

They are back Sunday. In the interim, I will speak to her parents to clear the air.

I hate to say it but I am starting to get those WAS feelings I hear so much about. Why do I need to put up with the crap she spews? Is it worth it? My k's are, but is she? I deserve respect (don't we all) and am getting NONE from her. (Yes this part is a venting...).

I would soooooo like to respond to her text with one about how this is simply an end to the lies and deceit and is a consequence of actions chosen, but I know that is not the way to go, right? So need to mull on what is next... and am open to suggestions.

I am fried tonite so it was easy to not respond immediately.