When I asked my C the same thing this is the analogy that she used.

Trust issues are little things that lead to you trusting the bigger things. They tell you they will be home at 5. They get home at 5 - trust circle complete. You get a bunch of these little trust circles built up and eventually the bigger ones will show up too. Trust circles that's what we are working on here. So far, they always circle back around. So with that said, I am trusting what I am seeing from H.

That said I can never say "that won't happen to us".

She said however, your radar will always be more intuned then previously.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too