Going dark, as I understood it, was to basically stop initiating communication. No more e-mails, text messages, phone calls, etc to try in any way to help, connect, correct or romance.
The only communication I continued had to do with our D.
W wasn't really reading e-mails anyway, and was getting annoyed with my calls.
She needed 'space' so I gave it to her.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09