untying a few knots #9

[sandycay]

BG,

You have no reason to keep anything from your H. I would tell him everything she said. However, keep in mind they both may be stretching the truth. Him stretching it to stop hurting you and her stretching it to hurt you. She doesn't deserve you as an ally. She is trying to say anything to get you to go away. Do you see now why he didn't want you to come.

I see this as a big step that he took you. I hope you recognize that. I am so glad you have restriant because I might have had to see if one of those crowns could be shoved up where the sun don't shine.

Please don't let her "play" you. She's told you he told her he wanted you. WOW.....that's a biggy. I would make it a light conversation by saying "you'll never believe what she told me"?

Unless the exact date that they stopped ML is a show stopper for you. The fact is it seems to be over. However, the boundary stands forever..... no contact with her without you or someone else present that you trust.


Spending time with your husband doing something you both enjoy = pricless
She had tears in her eyes = priceless

Going home with your H = priceless