It is tough, just keep everything in perspective and above all guard your heart. Getting letdown yet again because of unrealistic expectations sucks. Perhaps the best bet is to plow ahead with the new life and if she ever catches up, then you can evaluate at that time. Don't put anything on hold for her right now...
Steve
I hear ya Steve. The worst part of all of this is I really was moving right along happy as a clam then boom all it takes is a couple of timely phone calls and I'm sitting here confused and unsure what to think or feel. Truth be told, yes I do still love her but it's really, really faint. She'll always hold a special place in my heart and I do struggle with that because it makes me feel like I'll never have a whole heart to give to someone else.
I really just don't know how to feel right now, don't know if I should get back on the DBing bandwagon, tell her to take a hike, ignore her or worst of all pour my heart out to her. (I know that's a really bad idea!)
To toss a bit more fuel on the fire, my daily devotionals over the last week and a half have all been about being a good husband, good family patriarch, good family provider and how loving you should be to your wife. Funny how things happen like that, coincidence?? Sometimes I really wonder and now just wonder, what is God trying to tell me?
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
