I'm sorry, yes, I should have included adult children, and possibly 13-17 year olds, in an age-appropriate way and based on their level of maturity. Sorry for the confusion.
Puppy,
That ain't gonna work. How would I tell my soon-to-be 14 year old (who is less mature than my soon-to-be 11 year old (and maybe even my 8 year old)) without telling the other two? It would be a terrible burden on him to only tell him (and, BTW, to make the situation more delicat, he is bi-polar)...
Master?
-AlexEN
New: What a Weekend
H-48 WAW-49 M-22 S-14,9 D-11 EA disc.-11/07 PA disc.-3/08 EA2?-6/08 to ?
{{Alex}} Weird coincidence isn't it?? Funny that she thought you'd been together longer than you had..usually it's guys that forget that stuff (LOL..JUST kidding)
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Hey guys! I found a connection for my iPod while I'm out. Don't have a lot of time but wanted to say I was able to read your responses and will reply later from home. Thanks for all of your input.
I asked another question, not guy specific, but a guy's perspective is always appreciated, over on my thread. I would love your input Puppy and Gucci.
I feel like this whole thing is a two steps forward, one step back process. I guess my first steps have to be about my whole attitude, wouldn't you say?
Me: 38 H: 41 M: 12 D12, S10 H began EA: 7/08 H moved out: 9/30/08 Bomb (sleeping with OW): 10/23/08
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1638048&page=2#Post1638048
I'd like to thank gucci, Puppy, Sandi, Phoenix, Beth, Tawnya, Kalni, STRONG Military Wife (love the change, btw!), oh... I know I'm forgetting someone! This wouldn't have been possible without them! Thank you!!
ha ha!
(Why am I thinking about Sally Field right now? "You LIKE me, you REALLY LIKE me!" LOL!)
Me: 38 H: 41 M: 12 D12, S10 H began EA: 7/08 H moved out: 9/30/08 Bomb (sleeping with OW): 10/23/08
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1638048&page=2#Post1638048
I'm sorry, yes, I should have included adult children, and possibly 13-17 year olds, in an age-appropriate way and based on their level of maturity. Sorry for the confusion.
Puppy,
That ain't gonna work. How would I tell my soon-to-be 14 year old (who is less mature than my soon-to-be 11 year old (and maybe even my 8 year old)) without telling the other two? It would be a terrible burden on him to only tell him (and, BTW, to make the situation more delicat, he is bi-polar)...
Master?
-AlexEN
Alex,
If your 14yo is not very mature, you may not want to tell him anything other than "Mom and Dad are having problems right now, and we're trying to work on them. It's not your fault" -- sort of thing. Same as the younger ones.
