Mrs Im not sure why our H dont cooperate about D They say they want it, but maybe they are not totally sure Its a big decision and they are a little foggy in new R with OW and MLC I would say hes not 100% I also think they dont want pain and like to avoid anything uncomfortable most of these MLC leave a M and strt with OW immediatley b/c they dont want to deal with pain or grown up stuff they want to have fun, go on trips, spend money avoid responsibility. they are not thinking clearly but reliviing a carefree time when they were immotrtal teens I also told my H to file to "Wake him up" he filed in june, then stalled and never replied to my counterpetition My L was baffled now the court has intervened and set a mandatory mediation They say dont push for D if you dont want it but financial support is important so take care of yourself its only a paper but if your H is in MLC, it is probably too soon to see a real shift this takes many years keep taking care of yourself Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
